A serious relationship is becoming more and more rare now. Many adults choose hookup apps to know more strangers and more one night stands happen. Being in a long-term relationship can be too hard to us as we don’t really have much time on dating or flirting. Some people think all kinds of swindlers appear on the Internet and We cannot know if our partners are truly amazing. Some users get cheated with the loss of money and many of us don’t know how to tell a person if he/she is just cheating you or he/ she can be really reliable. Today, I will talk about three ways to tell whether your partners can be reliable.
NO.1 They spend time and energy on you. This rule is just basic. How can he prove that he loves you and he is reliable if he doesn't even have time to talk to you. He doesn’t want to know you ,which is the obvious sign you may be just a pastime of him. Everyone should find someone with a clear intention for them. A clear and well meaning person will take their relationship seriously. A boy ,hope, is very sad because he found his previous girlfriend had slept with someone else and he said he didn’t believe love anymore. After hearing this, we tried to comfort him. He told us the girl was known in hookup apps and after they became lovers, their chatting time is getting less and less. He found that his girlfriend often twitted at 1:00 p.m. When he asked the reason ,his girlfriend replied :” I stayed up late to work”. As he likes his ex so much, he trusted her a lot. He didn’t realize his friend cheated him until he found a guy shown in her pictures at 1:00pm. Then, he came to ask his girlfriend and knew that she had already had a one night hookup with that guy. Therefore, you should remember that the person you are dating don’t really like you if they don’t want to invest in you.
NO.2 They chat with you about their future. If your dating partner discuss about their future with you, this is a good sign that he/she wants you to show up for the rest of you. If they are a special person, they will not be afraid to plan with you in the future. At the same time, you should be brave to ask his/her future, you can see from their response. My coworker, Jenny told me she broke up with her boyfriend which was also known in the best app to hookup. “She is pretty and considerate but she deliberately avoided my question that what our future will be like.” He said . Her boyfriend told her he didn’t think this question before and he just wanted to enjoy in this relationship with no pressure. Jenny suggested she could understand him even she was a little disappointed. However, her boyfriend said he would get married with another girl, which helped her finally realized that If a guy doesn't want to marry you now, he is more likely to not marry you in the future. You can just be a hookup partner for them. All you should do is to let him go.
Meeting a bad person can be heartbreaking,we should know the following way to tell if he/she truly likes you.